Sweet

Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body. (Proverbs 16:24 ESV)

Sweet

When I was young, the word was, “cool.”  At other times the word might be, “groovy,” “fab,” “bad,” “gnarly,” “awesome,” “neato,” “mint,” or “Poppin’.”  But lately, the word is, “sweet!”

Honeycomb, in olden days, was nutritious, somewhat available, versatile, and tasty. 

And in a way, words can be all of those things, as well as their opposites.

But this verse seems to focus most clearly on the tastiness of honey.

Honey is sweet.

Our words can be sweet, too.

Two particular phrases come to mind.  First, “I forgive you” is a sweet phrase.  Folk do not hear it often.  When we hear that phrase, directed at us, it is sweet.

But also, “You are forgiven” is a sweet phrase.  Whether forgiven by a friend, a spouse, or the public, it is sweet to know forgiveness.  And more-so when we hear God’s sweet words of forgiveness.

It is sweet because it points us to the only source of forgiveness, Jesus.  It is sweet because it calms our embattled hearts.  It is sweet because it is a gift.  It is sweet because it is so very good for us.

Forgiveness is sweet.

The Future

Therefore, do not be anxious about tomorrow… (Matthew 6:24 ESV)

Future

Sometimes I am very aware of all the things that might go wrong tomorrow.

That strange noise in the car might get worse… TERRIBLY worse.

That discomfort in a particular muscle might get worse… TERRIBLY worse.

The troublesome economic signs might get worse… TERRIBLY worse.

The grocery store might run out of bacon.

Star Trek might go permanently off the air.

My football team might lose.  And lose.  And lose.

And maybe things much worse than any of those things.

But one thing will never happen.  God will not forget to forgive my sins.  God will never change His mind about forgiving me. God will never not forgive me.

And that is the most necessary part of our future.

It does not take a circus fortune teller to predict this important part of tomorrow, and tomorrow’s tomorrow.

God will forgive your sins.

But not because He is a nicey-nice grandfatherly old pushover.  No.  Christians are assured of God’s forgiveness because God already banked Christ’s payment for our infractions.

God will forgive your sins.  Because He already has.

Starting Over

The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; His mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness. (Lamentations 2:22,23 ESV)

Starting Over

Our broken relationship with God is fixed, because of Christ.  God starts over fresh with us every morning.  He forgave us at the cross, and the next day, and the next day, and the next day… and tomorrow.

Unlike any other aspect of our lives, our relationship with God has a constant RESET button.  He sees us freshly, in the light of Jesus, in the robes of Jesus, and in the presence of Jesus.  He forgave us, forgives us, and will forgive us.

Believe in Jesus, and God rejoices in starting us over.  As often as it takes.

And we can fix every broken relationship in the same way.  Exactly the same way.

We can forgive.  We get to forgive.  We are called to forgive. 

The same gift of God, starting over, can extend to every relationship we have.  Spouse, family, friends, neighbors, co-workers, church-mates, heroes, employers, employees, co-workers…

If it were just up to our emotions, attitudes, and thoughts, this would be impossible.  But instead, it is up to Christ’s work. 

Forgive in Christ, and we can fix every broken relationship.  We can start over.

Hiding

Seek the Lord, all you humble of the land, who do his just commands; seek righteousness; seek humility; perhaps you may be hidden on the day of the anger of the Lord. (Zephaniah 2:3 ESV)

Hiding

In scary movies, the more terrifying the monster, the more urgently the need to hide.  A fanged zombie mouse would not concern me all that much.  A hybrid King Kong, Godzilla, and the Invisible Man would send me to the hills!

We hide from a lot of terrifying things these days.  We hide in entertainment from the fear of bad news.  We hide in dessert from the fear of sadness.  We hide in work from the fear of responsibility.  We hide in self-righteousness form the fear of God’s Judgment.

But there is only one place to hide from God’s Anger.

We can hide in the absolute sure knowledge that God has forgiven His people, because God punished Jesus instead of us.

When Zephaniah writes poetically, “perhaps you may be hidden,”  we know he meant, “YOU CAN BE HIDDEN.”

Hiding from God’s wrath is only safe in one place.

Under Christ’s robe.  Beneath the cross.  Forgiveness is the only place to hide.

Anger

Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger. (Ephesians 4:26 ESV)

Anger

Anger is apparently a legitimate Christian reaction, or Paul would not begin this sentence with that phrase, “be angry.”   God Himself has been angry.  Angry enough to kill His own Son!

Anger at personal Sin is legitimate.  Anger at national Sin is legitimate.  Anger at the effects of Sin is legitimate. Anger at injustice is legitimate.  Anger at rebellion against God is legitimate.

But some angers are not legitimate.  Anger because of hurt feelings is not legitimate.  Anger because of the failure of selfish dreams is not legitimate.  Anger because of the loss of something I think of as mine is not legitimate.

But more than that, we get to be careful about how we express our anger.

Things that are unloving in everyday circumstances do not become righteous just because we are angry.

Let’s repeat that.  Things that are unloving in everyday circumstances do not become righteous just because we are angry.

THIS is how we get to always react to circumstances, words, actions, and situations:  With Love.

And also with forgiveness.  If we are still angry in the morning, we have not forgiven.  And our anger becomes revealed simply for what it is:  OUR sin.

The answer to anger is forgiveness.

Which was also GOD’S answer to His Anger, wasn’t it?

Sacrifice

But the king said to Araunah, “No. I’ve got to buy it from you for a good price; I’m not going to offer God, my God, sacrifices that are no sacrifice.” (II Samuel 24:24 ESV)

Sacrifice

The things we give up for God are not payments for His Grace.  In fact, they are not further Hard Obediences that He requires of us.

The things we give up for God are the result of us, His People, attempting to put HIM above ourselves.

If I had to give up food for God, I would gladly give up kale, onions, or green beans.  I would not be quite so willing to give up bacon, hamburgers, or ice cream.  But He does not ask me to give up food.

If I had to give up reading for God, I would gladly give up the news, Medical Journals, or Computer Programming textbooks.  I would not be quite so willing to give up Science Fiction, ancient history, or graphic novels.  But He does not ask me to give up reading.

If I had to give up relationships for God, I would gladly give up angry people, pot-stirring people, or strangers I met once.  I would not be quite so willing to give up family, churchfolk, or comedians.  But God does not ask me to give up people.

Unless any of those things are more important to me than He is.

But He does ask me to forgive.  But again, I would gladly give up my grudges against far away nations.  I would gladly give up my anger against strangers.  I would gladly give up frustration with ‘different’ people.

But it is harder to forgive those who hurt me deeply.  Those who negatively effected loves ones.  Those who dislike me.  Those who plan against the Church.  Those who refuse to listen.  Those who it feels good to be angry against.

And it is THOSE kinds of sacrificial forgivenesses that God asks of us.  Commands us, in fact.

Forgiving like Jesus means forgiving EVEN those grudges, anger, and hate that we nourish, enjoy, and about which we feel justified.

Forgive, especially when it is hard.

Leaven

“The kingdom of heaven is like leaven that a woman took and hid in three measures of flour, till it was all leavened.” (Matthew 13:33 ESV)

Leaven

This woman hides her valuable leaven in an unusual way.  She does not place the leaven in a sealed crockpot, so that it will remain useful.  Instead, she USES it.  She realizes that the value of the leaven is in leavening, not merely existing.

The same can be true with any treasure that the Lord has placed in our stewardship.  Money, land, relationships, talents, and time ALL are best preserved by using them.  Not hoarding them.

And even forgiveness.

We have been given the free gospel gift of forgiveness. 

The BEST, maybe the only, way to make use of it is to forgive others.  In the same way WE were given that gift.  Unconditionally.  Joyfully.  Often.  Repeatedly. Purposefully. Eagerly.  Even sacrificially.

Just like leaven, using forgiveness like THAT will make the bread of life rise!

Foreheads

 They will see His face, and His name will be on their foreheads. (Revelation 22:4)

Foreheads

Once in school, I developed a huge ugly pimple in the center of my forehead.  It was bright, colorful, and obvious.  The other kids started to call me, “unicorn.”

I stood out.

Christians might not have facial features that cause us to stand out, but there is something about us that is obvious.

The Lord’s Name is on our forehead.

Not a tattoo, obviously.

But how we act, how we present ourselves to those around us, and how we face our day.

In our world of lawsuits, grudges, and winning every encounter, instead we stand out if we forgive.  Not just to be nice, but because we know the value of forgiveness.  We have experienced the necessity of forgiveness. We have learned forgiveness from our Lord’s countenance.

Wouldn’t it be grand if, instead of reputations for legalism, Christians had a reputation for forgiveness?  What if, instead of being known for judgmentalism, we were known for grace and patience?  How different would we be, if instead of the world seeing us as demanding and angry, they saw on our foreheads love, kindness, and forgiveness?

What is on your forehead?

Joy

Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. (James 1:2,3 ESV)

Joy

I have a new skill.  I am learning to play the bagpipe.  I practice regularly, but not enough.  Every once in a while, someone who knows I am working on this, suggests an opportunity to actually play the pipes instead of just think about it, and prepare. 

I KNOW that when I begin to actually use the bagpipes, I will be filled with Joy.  The ones who hear me early on, maybe not so much.

Forgiveness might be something similar.  Scripture is filled with commands, examples, and hints of the grandness of forgiving.  But usually we only think about it, and prepare.

We talk ourselves out of forgiving, though.  We convince ourselves to forgive later.  We find ourselves ‘almost persuaded,’ but not quite.

Perhaps this is one of the reasons God sends us trials.  Trials do not just happen.  Trials are usually caused by someone.  And so most trials are an opportunity to forgive.

And when we are able to choose forgiveness instead of our usual anger, self-righteousness, and grudge-nurturing… we can discover something.  Our relationship with the CAUSE of our forgiveness grows more steadfast.

And we get to have joy.

Trials are a source of Joy.  They teach us God’s fidelity.  They increase our faith.  They mold our character.

And they are an opportunity to forgive.

Human

 Since therefore the children share in flesh and blood, he himself likewise partook of the same things, that through death he might destroy the one who has the power of death, that is, the devil,  and deliver all those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong slavery. (Hebrews 2:14,15 ESV)

Human

Recently, in a dramatic presentation, our cast learned that one of our players was no longer able to take part.  We found a replacement.  She is a young lady of similar age, deportment, and ability.  We did not replace our actor with a kitten, an old man, or a tree.  Only like can replace like.

Sometimes I prepare a particular casserole for our Wednesday church dinner.  Once I was unable to purchase corn, a necessary ingredient.  Instead I used peas.  But I did not replace the corn with meatballs, tulips, or pebbles.  Only like can replace like.

Last week, some IT problems stranded large numbers of travelers.  When their flights were cancelled, they did not receive new luggage, potato salad, or complementary tickets to a movie theater.  Only like can replace like.

When the One True Living God needed to grant His people absolute forgiveness,  To remain Just, He needed, though, to punish someone.  And so He chose a replacement. 

He could not kill an animal in our place. Only like can replace like. (The Old Testament Sacrifices did not grant forgiveness, but only pointed the way to Christ’s substitutionary atonement.)

He could not kill Himself in our place.  Divinity is not the same as humanity, and would not have sufficed.  Only like can replace like.

He could not destroy creation itself.  Only like can replace like.

So was born the Christ.  Fully divine, yes.  But fully human so that like can replace like.

Anything else would make our forgiveness incomplete.

When we feel insecure about the sureness of our forgiveness, remember that God justly, perfectly, wisely, lovingly, and necessarily replaced like with like.

Shame

For the Scripture says, “Everyone who believes in him will not be put to shame.” (Romans 10:11 ESV)

Shame

Regret for past actions, thoughts, and attitudes is not shame.

Awareness of a tendency to sin in particular ways is not shame.

A desire to make restitution, regardless of time passage, is not shame.

Shame is continuing to feel guilt after God’s forgiveness.  Shame is adding more guilt to what has been forgiven by God.  Shame is equating past sin with present forgiven self.

Before God, because (and ONLY because) of Christ’s work, Christians have no shame.  Shame makes no sense, if we are forgiven.

Before other people, because (and ONLY because) of Christ’s work, Christians have no need for shame.  Shame makes no sense if we are forgiven.

Even in self-reflection, because (and ONLY because) of Christ’s work, Christians have no need for shame.  Shame makes NO sense if we are forgiven.

Believe in the Lord, and shame has no foundation.

The Sword

…for he is God’s servant for your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for he does not bear the sword in vain. For he is the servant of God, an avenger who carries out God’s wrath on the wrongdoer. (Romans 13:4 ESV)

The Sword

The primary way that God takes vengeance on His enemies, is that He punished Christ instead of sinners.  God’s wrath fell on Christ instead of His people.

But clearly, justice is needed in the here-and-now, not only eternally.

And God made governments to look after justice in our world.

A tyrant is not simply a mean national leader.  A tyrant is anyone who takes and uses authority they do not have.  A child who orders a parent about is a tyrant.  A boss who attempts to control your home life is a tyrant.  A teacher who tries to teach what to think, instead of how to think, is a tyrant.

And when we try to take God’s authority as our own, we are tyrants.

When we are unwilling or unable to forgive, it is often because we are trying to take God’s authority, the authority for vengeance, on ourselves.  We want to bring God’s wrath on someone.

It is easy to see the path that leads us towards that kind of tyranny.  We might not think God is bringing justice fast enough.  We might not be satisfied with the vengeance God is showing His enemies.  We might not believe that God is doing a good job.

And usually, we forget that God has delegated the authority in this world to bring justice.  The Bible uses the metaphor of the sword to depict this.  God does not need the state to bring justice, but He chooses to set up governments to do that.

And they usually do not do as good a job as WE would, if God had given US that sword!

Governments do fail.  Governments are not often just.  Governments are not often purposeful.  Governments are not often God-fearing.  Governments are often tyrannical, taking vengeance where they do not have the right.

But that does not mean WE get that sword, as individual people of God.

But when we take up that sword, not only are we tyrants, but we lock our hearts into an attitude of non-forgiveness.

I realize this topic is a lot more complicated than space allows.  But suffice it to say, that letting God’s system take care of vengeance is a good way to nurture forgiveness in our hearts.

Fools

We are fools for Christ’s sake, ( I Corinthians 4:10 ESV)

Fools

In the eyes of the world, and maybe in the way we were brought up, being so very extremely forgiving is seen as foolish.  We are bound to be embarrassed by our kindness, when the forgiven ends up repeating their offense.  We are bound to be taken advantage of, because forgivers seem to reject due recompense.  We are bound to be seen as naïve, weak, and like a doormat.

But we are only those things if Jesus Christ is.

He forgives not because He profits thereby, but because forgiveness is the core of His gospel.  He forgives not because we have earned it, or are likely to remain daily faithful, but because forgiveness is the core of the gospel.  He forgives not because it is weak, meek, or mild, but because HIS kind of forgiveness is the epitome of strength.

And we get to be that kind of fool.  Forgiveness displays the gospel when we see the horrible offense, but choose to forgo recompense, displaying mercy like Christ’s.  Forgiveness displays the gospel when we deserve justice, revenge, and fairness, displaying love like Christ’s.  Forgiveness displays the gospel when we deserve surface victory, displaying kingship like Christ’s.

The world might see forgiveness as foolish, but we know better.

Wicked

You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me.  And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?’ (Matthew 18:32,33)

Wrong Headed

We have examined this servant before.  His boss calls him wicked.  Usually, we withhold that title or description for someone who has observably done something harmful, nasty, or unrighteous.

We look for external signs before we declare someone wicked.  Intentions do not usually earn that title.  Plans that are not carried out are usually not called wicked.  Unhealthy emotions are not usually called wicked until someone acts on them. 

But this servant was called wicked for something less visible.

He was called wicked for not forgiving.

He was, and this is hidden in the original meaning of the word “wicked,” wrong headed.

We see that wicked servant and we know that he is wicked.  But we are no more eager to forgive than he was.

Let us get our heads the right way. 

Forgive, like the most holy righteous perfect person in the universe does.  Have heads like Christ.

More Different

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. (Romans 12:2 ESV)

MORE Different

One of my family’s friends while growing up always got their cars worked on.  We did SOME of the prevention and maintenance things, but this particularly family spent a lot of time and money making sure their cars were in top shape.

They were different than the rest of us.

More so, Christians are different from the world.  Because we are forgiven.

We are not different because we are nicer.  We often are not.  We are not different because we are more obedient to God’s law.  We often are not.  We are not different because we go to church, pray, read the Bible, or are more polite.  We might be all of those things, at times, but they are not what makes us different.

We are forgiven.  Because of Christ’s work.  Because of Christ’s life.  Because of Christ’s death.  Because of Christ’s resurrection.

Our forgiveness is the most different, and the best thing about us.

Stop forgetting that.

Different

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. (Romans 12:2 ESV)

Different

Only our God shows forgiveness.  The world says get even.  The state says forgiveness MIGHT come after punishment.  Our legal system says forgiveness is failure.  Our playgrounds taught us forgiveness is for the weak.

Modern psycho-babble says that forgiveness is not necessary, since everyone is nice.  Humanism says forgiveness is just a form of justice, since all are simply equal, regardless of role or activity.  And religion says forgiveness is earned only through new obedience to some standard.

But God’s word says do not be like the world.  Instead, we get to receive, understand, and give real forgiveness.

Real forgiveness occurs when the offense is clearly stated.  But rather than vengeance, the offended offers forgiveness.  Real forgiveness occurs when the offended deserves to be angry.  But rather than continued anger, the offended offers forgiveness.  Real forgiveness occurs when justice demands punishment and recompense.  But the offended offers forgiveness.

It is probably the most DIFFERENT thing that Christians can do.

Be different, forgive.  Even if you are the only one.

The Same

For whoever keeps the whole law but fails in one point has become guilty of all of it. (James 2:10 ESV)

The Same

This past weekend our nation heard about an assassination attempt.  Assassinations are definitely on the high, serious end of our list of sins.  Assassinations might be on one end, and disobeying traffic laws might be on the other.

But in God’s eyes, a sin is a sin, and separates sinners from God.  Certainly some sins have worse effects than others.  But sins, as far as how our holy God perceives them, are at the same level.

I am finding that there are two kinds of people in the church.  Some find it easier to forgive BIG sins.  Others find it easier to forgive SMALL sins.

But instead, remember how God views them.  He loves His people enough to kill His Son for EVERY kind of sin.  No big.  No little.  Just sin.

The angels rejoice when we are able to forgive big sins.  The angels rejoice when we are able to forgive small sins.

We cause much rejoicing in heaven when we forgive like God does.  When we forgive like He forgives us.

Whether it is tiny offenses, or political assassinations.

Forgive.

Imbalance

You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me.  And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?’ (Matthew 18:32,33)

Imbalance

President Dwight D. Eisenhouwer was generous with his time.  He is rumored to have answered every letter sent to him by American schoolchildren, personally.

A reporter asked him why.  And President Ike answered, “The people of this country have given me so much.  How can I not take the time to answer a few letters?”

The reporter followed up with a statement.  “So you are repaying these young Americans for trusting you with this office?”

The story is, that Eisenhouwer smiled with that quirky grin.  “It is not a question of repaying, or of balance.  After all I have received, my gratitude forces me to this action.”

Christians are forgiven.  We received and receive and will receive more blessings than Eisenhouwer.  His blessings ended after eight years.  His blessings ended when political favor shifted.  His blessings ended when biographers dulled the shine of his life story.

We are not asked to forgive to balance out what we’ve received.  That would be impossible.  Our Sins against God far outweigh our sins against each other.  So much so, that it is silly to compare.

But because we bask and rest and rejoice in His forgiveness… Christians naturally forgive, too.

Not to balance.  But because, WOW, how can we not?

Vengeance

Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” (Romans 12:19 ESV)

Vengeance

We no longer use the word, venge.  Venge refers to punishment.  But we do use a number of forms of the word.  Re-venge is to extract punishment when we have been hurt.  A-venge is to extract punishment when we have been unjustly punished.  And venge-ance covers the whole arena of punishment.

God is not only the universe’s best expert on venge, but He holds all responsibility, authority, and duty to venge in His strong right arm.  While the Trinity has passed on to us love, creativity, honor, humility, stewardship, and relationship… He has kept venging for Himself.

The Father sovereignly extracts and performs all venging, choosing to venge His Son instead of His other children.

The Son has risen to the throne, and bears and IS the sword of venging. 

The Spirit directs our hearts to know that we deserve God’s venging, and also ensures our protection from true venging though union with Christ.

The almighty God retains, completes, and improves all the venge in the universe.  Because of His love for His people.

God’s individual people do not need to do venge for Him.  We do not need to ensure venge on His behalf.  We do not need to make sure that all the venge that is sometimes so obviously needed all around us, because of us, on us, or especially due us is completed.

God has it in hand.  God had it in hand.  God will have it in hand.

So forgiveness can be grasped.  God already has the venge taken care of.  In a way, we have nothing to forgive.

Better

…remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’  (Acts 20:35)

Better

It is common and easy to apply these words to Christmas presents, acts of kindness, and second helpings of dessert.  But the same concept can be applied to forgiveness, as well.

In our relationships with each other, we want to be forgiven.  We are blessed when others forgive us.  Eventually, as time progresses after an offense, we begin to expect to be forgiven.

But it is a blessing to forgive, even more than it is a blessing to be forgiven.

In fact, being overly concerned about BEING forgiven might show a weakness in our hearts. 

Rather than be angry at those who have not forgiven us, instead forgive them.

Rather than be sullen about a lack of forgiveness towards us, instead forgive others.

Rather than hold a grudge against those who have not forgiven us, instead display the gracious and rare gift of forgiving others.

Even before they apologize.  Even before they repent.  Even before they know they need forgiveness.

Just like Jesus has forgiven us.